#BlogchatterA2Z TIME

DAY 20-: TIME

The most precious thing one can gift to other is TIME .If someone gives you his time value it and respect it. The gift of time is often more valuable to the receiver and more satisfying for the giver than the gift of money. We don’t all have the same amount of money, but we all do have time on our hands, and can give some of this time to others when they are in its utmost need.

I strongly believe that if you give your precious time in someone’s need of hour nothing can above than this ,and when you performed your side well you moved a step higher towards happiness and satisfaction.In similar ways, same rule applies for those receivers also, one should respect it and grateful for whole life .Since a person is not given only time in his need but he has gifted him a part of life also like, ,some precious hours/days of his life,which indeed cannot be measured or returned back only and only deserves a huge respect and gratitude.Being honest with your own deeds gives an inner happiness.So spend your time sensibly who deserves to be given importance ,who not in your life,chalk it out wisely do not waste time on the people who doesn’t value you.TIME IS PRICELESS AND LIMITED IN EVERYONE’s STOCK,SO SPEND IT ON THOSE YOU TRULY LOVES YOU AND RESPECT YOU ,VALUE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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#BlogchatterA2Z Zest For A Happy Life

DAY 26 -: ZEST FOR A HAPPY LIFE

“If things don’t come easy, there is no premium on effort. There should be joy in the chase, zest in the pursuit”. Branch Rickey.

A word Zest reminds me of a very interesting book I read couple of months ago “ZEST OF HAPPINESS ” by Melina Nardi Story about three different boys,living three different and an awful childhood.
1989 in Chargulli, Pakistan. Sameer loves running after chickens and stealing apples from his neighbors. He has no idea that soon enough his life will change drastically as the Russians leave Afghanistan and the Talibans are slowly taking over the region. 1989 in Naples, Italy. Nicola loves watching Beppe make pizza and hates doing subtractions. He wonders where his mother is taking him as she runs through the peach and olive trees, further and further away from home. 1989 in Santiago, Chile. Juan is a lonely child who has been taught to hide in the shadows. He hears all around him that Pinochet is gone, that democracy has been restored, so why does his father still feel fear in his guts every time he leaves the house? Inspired from real persons, based on true facts, this novel reveals the untold stories of many people around the globe who are struggling to find their own life destinations, despite oppression, humiliation and confusion. They are immigrants, activists, guerrilleros.or simply human beings with a wandering heart, but all of them have an admirable zest for happiness.

Zest is defined as living life with a sense of excitement, anticipation, and energy. Approaching life as an adventure; such that one has “motivation in challenging situations or tasks”. Zest is essentially a concept of courage, and involves acquiring the motivation to complete challenging situations and tasks. Those who have zest exude enthusiam excitement and energy while approaching tasks in life. It is a positive trait reflecting a person’s approach to life with anticipation, energy, enthusiasm and excitement. The most universal and distinctive mark of happy people is zest. With zest one has more interests which bring more opportunities for happiness. 

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#BlogchatterA2Z Quality Over Quantity

DAY 17 -: choose QUALITY OVER QUANTITY

“As Aristotle said, ‘Excellence is a habit.’ I would say furthermore that excellence is made constant through the feeling that comes right after one has completed a work which he himself finds undeniably awe-inspiring. … “Excellence comes when we balance quality with quantity.”

“Excellence comes when we balance quality with quantity.” 
― Amit Ray,

Shine of quality cannot be compare with shine of quantity.Abundance of anything can bring happiness, if you feel happy with the tag “LOTS OF” somewhere you will comprosing with the term quality whether it is about your friends, clothes, gadgets ,toys,parties etc. It doesn’t matter how much of something you have ,what matters is the quality of what you have. By gripping on what is important for you through choosing quality over quantity proceed to strainless as well as a happy life . You will find more enriched and affluent life by choosing things, relationships, and experiences ,in lieu of choosing more of everything. There is nohard and fast rule of choosing quality over quantity. It is simply a matter of valuing yourself by choosing sophastication.
If we don’t make the decision to value ourselves then we will constantly find ourselves in a place that lacks meaning and depth. Over time, this can destroy our lives.

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#BlogchatterA2Z Youthfulness

DAY 25-: be YOUTHFULNESS

“Youthfulness is not determined by age. It is determined by one’s life force. One who possesses hope is forever young. One who continually advances is forever beautiful”. Daisaku Ikeda

“To find joy in work is to discover the fountain of youth.” ~Pearl S. Buck


Who else out there just like me ,wants youthfulness till the last breath,Of course, not by the age but by being energetic. No one can control the age but, growing old happily and lively definitely is in our hands. Youthfulness refers to playfulness, enthusiasm, being child-like, energetic, innocent, and hopeful.
It clearly shows you are dwelling in a time of vigor, energy and zeal. Being a youth means happiness and laughter. It is never about your age or your gender or even your marital status, being a youth is more of a mindset rather than a form. Challenge yourself to try new things, learn new ideas, and develop new skills. .Bring your attention repeatedly to the present moment, through formal mindfulness meditation or informal mindfulness practice. It can help you to appreciate this moment, rather than becoming lost in regrets about the past or imagining future deterioration.Develop a sense of meaning in life.

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#BlogchatterA2Z Uniqueness

DAY 21-: UNIQUENESS

 “Be unique instead of best. Because being best just makes you no. 1, but being unique makes you the only one!”

“Embrace your uniqueness. Time is much too short to be living someone else’s life”.    Kobi Yamada  


Explore your identity which you can say purely owned by you .Have you ever felt the power of being in your own tashan? When you say, “I don’t care. This is how I am and I love it!”, it adds a lot of weight to you and your personality. Owning your own unique character is a prime accelerator of one’s confidence level. Each person has their own unique whim,a special trait , that you may have learned ,but feel like these are not the best qualities you could own, you may want to detach from those skills, but the truth is you should embrace those parts of speciality of yourself. You need to claim and accept them high headed , so you can reach your potential and share those skills with others.

Being different,being unique is always beautiful as well as daring .It is a state of standing out from other common crowd. This could be the personality,course of action, beliefs, morals,values anything. There has been more than forty presidents in America, but; Abraham Lincoln stands out as the one who freed slaves. William Shakespeare’s writings were unique from those time writers and this is the reason we remember him today.

You will meet plenty of people in your life, following the common steps society,struggling to fix their position in the crowd with the baggage of FEAR of being LEFT OUT from the so called circle/society,without thinking for a once about their values,their views; they are happy in proving their false presence, by killing the uniqueness of their personality and thoughts ,but in life we remember only those who hold their unique quality not the crowd. Thats why FOR ME UNIQUENESS IS A COURSE OF ACTION OF DARE WITH SUSTAINABILITY INTO THE CROWD MORE THAN A TRAIT TO EMBRACE. Save your happiness by reconizing your unique quality ,work on it and conquer the world of inner happiness.

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#BlogchatterA2Z Xtra Dose of Blessings

DAY 24-: XTRA DOSE OF BLESSINGS!

“YEH DIL MAANGE MORE.” or “YEH DIL MAANGE XTRA DOSE.”

Everyone has their own wishlist ,in which I am sure we all try our best to achieve or to fulfill, almost every wish upto certain level,but among those listed wish items everyone has their some points of favorites for which they are little selfish and wish to have a bit extra proportion in comparison to other listed items, to which we call XTRA DOSE or YEH DIL MAANGE MORE .Isn’t it?For instance,some ask for extra dose of love,some anticipates more clicks of luck, some craves for money,some wants extra hours to sleep,a kid whinges for extra day for playing and so on.But for me and I am sure max of the people also out there just like me wishing for xtra dose of BLESSINGS!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes,for me blessings express our feelings. They need not be traditional ones. They simply need to come from the heart. When they do, they can change lives. Blessings always been the most important and valuable thing in life ,”BLESSINGS CAN NOT BE SEEN BUT ITS POSITIVITY CAN BE EXPERIENCED TIME TO TIME”.If you have a happy family,loving and understanding partner,caring friends,food to eat , a healthy body,roof on your head , financial abundance, a successful career, trusted friends. These are the essential ingredients of a blessed life, having all of them turns your life into an extraordinarily blessed life.

Keep your blessings stock full by helping others in their need,by being honest to yourself and the people around.Blessings works as a shield through your rough times,your good deeds will never going to be unnoticed,it is like fixed deposit of your blessings,which offers guaranteed returns.

Count Your Blessings And Earn Your Blessings!!!!!!

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#BlogchatterA2Z Patience

DAY 16 -: PATIENCE

” Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting”. Joyce Meyer

“God has perfect timing; never early, never late. It takes a little patience and it takes a lot of faith but it’s worth the wait.” Anonymous

“Patience is the ability to accept trouble, suffering, and delay without getting angry or upset. I feel like if you can master patience, you can master anything.”-Sean Anderson


“To lose patience is to lose the battle.” Mahatma Gandhi

Patience is all about the self-control that shows you can handle your body,mind,attitude,behavior,words even when times get tough.It helps the person to look outside of himself. In short, exhibiting patience shows that you have a high moral standard in life.It helps you make better decisions in life that can quite literally save your life. When you are not anxious to do something or get something, you take time to think about it and come to the best solution possible. On the other hand, when you are impatient to get your desired goal
quickly you can easily make wrong decisions.

Practising patience is a not lesser than the challenge to a daily life and key to a happy one. Having patience means being ability to perform calmly in even the worst , therefore,wherever there is adversity we have the opportunity to practice it. At home with our kids as a parent or vice versa, at work with our colleagues, at the shopping mall with public around,only patience can make the difference between roughness and gentleness, between worry and calmness. For the peaceful mind and life one need embrace himself with the virtue of patience.

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#BlogchatterA2Z Winning Spirit

DAY 23-:WINNING SPIRIT

“Winning has nothing to do with racing. Most days don’t have races anyway. Winning is about struggle and effort and optimism, and never, ever, ever giving up.” 
― Amby Burfoot.

“Winning is a state of mind that embraces everything you do.” 
― Bryce Courtenay.

I strongly agree that nothing can beat the coolest and contented feel of “WINNING”,it is like the most desperate and demanding dream of everyone out there on the planet. Nevertheless,in any contest or competition whether at home/workplace or practically in your own life,winning can’t be serve to everybody into the race, it belongs to the one who worked hard,who deserves best ,who performed well on D-Day or might be with only 5% possibility but, yes whose luck is on his side that day. Rest of the participants automatically declared on the other side I won’t use the term LOSING since I don’t believe in losing untill your spirit of winning died somewhere inside by giving up on another try.Although ,the tag of Winner goes to the only one,but rest of competitors doesn’t lose ,they go with the hands full of experiences and secrets of losing.


“Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday.” — Wilma Rudolph

So true!!!To owned a happiest life SPIRIT OF WINNING is way more required than the winning. Winning is not about finishing in first place. It is not about beating the others. It is about overcoming yourself. Overcoming your body, your limitations, and your fears. Winning means surpassing yourself and turning your dreams into reality.

“Winning does not always means to being first,winning means you’re doing better than you’ve ever done before.” —Bonnie Blair

The feeling of happiness and joy that any victory brings is basically felt and enjoyed by our ego. Our true Self knows neither victory nor loss. The soul is beyond duality of good and bad, right and wrong, winning and losing. But human mind and ego exult when it can do something better than other person or other team. And sometimes it becomes difficult to conclude whether our win or their loss causes greater satisfaction.

Therefore, winning does not have the ability to gear up your happiness ,if you highly possess the spirit of winning despite of losing the game ,You are declared WINNER and OWNER of a happy life. I


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Surround Yourself With Right People

DAY 19-: SURROUND YOURSELF WITH RIGHT PEOPLE

Making lots of friends isn’t a big deal, Making a right friend is a VICTORY!!I remember a very common quote my parents use to say in both situation whether I did something wrong or right, I receive a comment from them”SANGAT KA ASAR HAI” (Effected by the company) similarly, for my good deeds also credit goes to my friends like “SANGAT KA ASAR HAI”.That time I found this comment very irritating. But now today at this age I can say whatever my parents said each and every word still standing with the same integrity and truthfulness.Our surroundings effects us the most.If it’s consist the right people ,positive people they will uplift you by telling your true qualities on the other hand handle drawbacks carefully or vice- versa. Surround yourself with people whose presence calls forth your best, who awaken your inner power, take you higher and help you realize your own worth. Find people who have acheived what you want and whose behavior is better than yours, and then follow their lead and learn from them.

“Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, who help you when you’re in need. People who genuinely care. They are the ones worth keeping in your life. Everyone else is just passing through.” – Karl Marx


Happiness is contagious. When you’re surrounded by good people, you are surrounded by life. You will be less stressed and find more joy in daily things, you will be able to build self-confidence, boost your creativity. On the other side , hanging out with negative people means you are just an addition to their crap and that’s exhausting and depressing. Let go of people who give you stress and make you unhappy. Surround yourself with  positive people that helps you shine both inside and outside.

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Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.

– Jim Rohn

#BlogchatterA2Z Values

DAY 22-: VALUES

“Peace of mind produces right values, right values produce right thoughts. Right thoughts produce right actions.” Mark Richardson

Values plays an essential role in building one’s personality ,right values give a strong foundation to a happy life, because they help us to grow and develop. Values are priorities that tell you how to spend your time, right here, right  now. They help us to create the future we want to experience. At various stages of life ,we are bound to take thousands of decisions .At the call of that moment whatever decisions we take,purely reflection of our values ,ethics and beliefs, and they are always directed towards a specific purpose.
If you don’t know what your values are, then you will have a hard time figuring out what it is that you are actually looking for to be satisfied and happy in your life. And if you don’t know what you are looking for, then you definitely won’t know when you are going to have it. Holding your values with high head throughout your life and at the same time moving strongly on the right path is actually an achievement for oneself. Values are guiding principles for behavior. They can help ensure you behave in a way that matches who you want to be at your core. People often react quickly in situations, especially difficult ones, and they don’t always take the time to think about what they are doing before they do it. You can use your values to reflect on situations, too, to decide.


“Open your arms to change but don’t let go of your values.” Dalai Lama .

Values differ from people to people,age to age. Parents and teachers pass values to their children, by following those path values a child starts to live his life believing on what elders taught is important, be that kindness, discipline,obediency,respect,committed, and so on. Nevertheless, as soon as that child grows up ,he must determine what is of most value to us on our own. Some of the values from childhood remain with you as same as those days, but sooner you become more aware and realize that others have become increasingly more important as you have grown and changed. Tolerance, gratitude, teamwork,adventures family etc.

For me Values doesn’t change with the age , only extends it’s scopes in life. Whatever life serves you handle it with care and wisdom ,list your values and then take decision ,you will get the best version of yourself !!!!!!!!!!!!

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